First love or lust?

You are suddenly reminding me of someone....

Kinda creepy,but I like creepy.

Yea, I hate the phone too. I make evryone email me.

Ghost: Edward Cullen?

Anyway, I tried posting here once, but then the broken link error got me. >_<

In my opinion, love is when you want someone purely for how they are. Their personality, voice, how they make you feel.... but lust is wanting someone purely for their looks. Which is immoral and wrong.

Whoa, whoa, whoa. Immoral and wrong?

You know, he just has an opinion, hes not rightor wrong, just an OPINION.

But still, that's a terribly WRONG opinion. That's borderline ignorance.

My sister and I were talking about Twilight and we both agreed it is a prime example of an unhealthy relationship. The man is controlling and possessive, and the girl is needy and self-absorbed.

One of the key reasons I hateTwilight.

RiBlan wrote:Ghost: Edward Cullen?

I've never read or seen Twilight. I was talking about a guy I knew in college. He's probably in jail now, though, which is a pity. I actually rather liked him most of the time.

Opinions are allowed as long as they're not expressed in a derogatory fashion (IE putting others down), which Ri already knows and some have yet to understand. that would be why some have been warned for their opinions. There's a difference between "I like a good drink, maybe I go overboard, but oh well," and "Booze is the best thing ever, drink it." Learn the difference and you'll be fine (here).

I mostly agree with Ri, but on the condition that the lust is ACTED upon. I mean, you may think someone is sexy, but that's not immoral, it's just a preference. I'd say it's immoral when you become obsessed. And it's also annoying when your uncle pauses the TiVo or rewinds it just to stare at a picture of a woman in a bikini and heels with you and your mother in the room.

My uncle gave me his phone to make a call and his background was of a naked woman. He didn;t care. It kinda threw me off.

Lust is okay in moderation, I suppose. I mean,if you both agree that it is a fling and nothing more and neither one is married, then I dont see a problem with it, but if feeling are going to be hurt or you are addicted then I think it is wrong.

my uncle has been trying to convince me to become a republican, become a drinker, be less respectful about women, etc. It's just like "Umm, I can make my own decisions, kthxbi."

Good for you, Raps! Be the better man!

ANY man is better than my uncle. >_>

You know, I think everyone has that one uncle that is..odd.

I have an uncle that no one claims. He's just always been a butthole and no one gets along with him. When people talk about him, it's always "your brother" or "your uncle." Nobody wants to claim him.

Rapsheba555 wrote:my uncle has been trying to convince me to become a republican, become a drinker, be less respectful about women, etc. It's just like "Umm, I can make my own decisions, kthxbi."

your uncle is a straight shooter with upper management written all over him