Just friends? Try just an asshole.

http://www.mademan.com/how-get-friend-benefits/

I find this disgusting. What this appears is to be leading a woman into having sex and hoping she's okay with being 'just friends' afterwards. If you don't make your intentions clear beforehand that what you want is purely physical, you're worse than a sleaze, you're an asshole who just took advantage of another person.

I agree. If BOTH people just want something physical, that's fine by me. But when it hurts one or the other, that's where i draw the line. i had a friend who did this sort of thing. I just tried to help anyone in his path as best I could.

That is completely appalling, Its one thing to figure it out on your own (which is horrible on its own) but to get men instructions on how to f-ck with women?

One thing that bothered me the most was that if she cuddles after sex, you screwed up. Thats just nice. Sex is supposed to be a very intimate action, but to not only cheapen it and remover any romance from it is just wrong.

omg, I haven't seen instructions like this before. And yeah, it is disgusting, even kinda hurts, maybe just me, nvm I dunno how to explain... :S

It's not just you. It's anybody with a shred of decency. You don't need to explain; anybody who doesn't understand what's wrong with that won't understand any explanation and anybody else already understands.

I guess so. Thanks.